I have an online business and about to start promoting either this week or the next, so as soon as I start seeing success with it, I'm leaving my boss behind and frankly every other idiot who doesn't know how to run a business well.

That's great. If you want some free advertising, shoot me an email with the details of your site and I'll set something up for you.

When I hired people to mentor me, even if it was just a few calls, they helped me out tremendously

Ah, well that's the difference – I didn't get a chance to hire mine ))

Though, come to think of it, my martial arts Grandmaster was and remains the second most influential man in my entire life, right next to my dad, and I used to pay his school a lot of money every year to learn Krav Maga. So I suppose that counts.

I am currently working on my exit plan. I have an online business and about to start promoting either this week or the next, so as soon as I start seeing success with it, I'm leaving my boss behind and frankly every other idiot who doesn't know how to run a business well.

The situation with my boss is that he is a pathological liar and a hypocrite. He does not get off on humiliating people, but he often doesn't care about how people feel. He is the complete opposite of the safe space guys/gals, in that he has too little empathy.

You are correct about the psychological toll it takes though. The only good thing about my day job is that it opened my eyes to all the kind of crazy people out there. I thought I saw it all in the army, but I was mistaken. There really are a yyyyuuuuge number of people who have zero meta cognition, and so they pretty much act like sheep or predators who try to chew more than they can.

The Kybalion was right on the karma part. All of the mess that my boss has made in his life will come back and bite him in the ass harder than ever.

I disagree with you on the mentorship part. When I hired people to mentor me, even if it was just a few calls, they helped me out tremendously. They told me exactly what I needed to do for my own situation and so this month I accomplished more than I did for the past two years in terms of working on an online business. You have no idea what you are missing out there if you haven't looked around.

And here I thought I was one of the few who had to deal with a boss who exhibits psychopathic traits on a daily basis.

Get out of there ASAFP. If you are dealing with a boss with psychopathic traits, you WILL feel drained and poisoned over time, and your health and mental well-being WILL suffer significantly.

I should have got mentors years ago instead of trying to figure things out on my own.

Yes, but then I think pretty much every unplugged man out there says the same thing at one point or another.

The way to deal with this is to become that mentor to other younger men – like I do with my blog. I don't claim to be any good at it, but there is a huge amount of life-coaching experience that men can find here if they so choose.

You are most welcome. I agree that it would be useful to see this precise subject through Christian eyes. Perhaps I can oblige in tomorrow's podcast – we will see.

One other thing – you put a name down in your comment, so I published it, but please note that I strongly prefer people to comment under an identifiable handle. Normally I would simply delete an anonymous comment out of hand. Just be aware of that policy when commenting in future.

Would have liked to see this video through the eyes of a Christian. Only thing that would have made it better. Thank you. Jeff