Good points. I checked out Maya DeVir's Instachump account and it's all actually very tame – mostly photos of her and her husband together, along with loads of their cartoons. There is no attention-whoring going on at all, it's quite wholesome.

But, your point remains valid. Instagram gives women immediate access to attention, which they crave. And in the case of the couple in question here, they went and setup an Instagram account for their newborn daughter – a massive mistake, in my personal opinion, not least because apparently it got hacked very soon afterwards.

These days the social media genie is well out of the bottle, and there is no going back. The only way to deal with it is to watch a woman's behaviour. In my case, the last girl that I dated has social media accounts on VK, Facebook, and Insty. She would regularly get massive amounts of orbiter attention because, hey, she's hot. And she would show that stuff to me directly – along with her responses, which were always completely non-committal and largely uninterested. I never worried about her cheating on me in any way because of the transparency and the humour involved.

Chances are that if she has social media and doesn't act on any of the offers that she invariably gets from it, she's a keeper. If she does act on them – ditch her, fast.

One thing that got me thinking, however, was the message in the cartoon you used for your title image. I think that situation has a chance of ending up a problem for them in the future. His “OH SHIT!” expression at her question means it’s too late for him to deal with it easily. He didn’t set things up earlier on so that she never would have even considered opening an account in the first place. I think the social media thing is something that needs to be handled early in the relationship – a tall order nowadays, to be sure. It’s too much of a temptation for women and, once the simps get going, corrosive to the pair bond – similar to, probably even much worse than, porn consumption for married men. The women have the very real possibility to connect with the simps following them, where the men have practically zero chance of ever hooking up with the porn stars or cam girls.