Comments on: Balancing the ledger https://didacticmind.com/2019/02/balancing-ledger.html Strategic Defence of the Mantle of Responsibility Sat, 29 Aug 2020 12:36:08 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.0 By: Anonymous https://didacticmind.com/2019/02/balancing-ledger.html#comment-1673 Wed, 20 Feb 2019 09:48:10 +0000 #comment-1673 In reply to Anonymous.

Didact,

Agreed men are simple creature. It's just women's brains(tm) overanalyze and multitask as to why women have such a hard time understanding men:)
I'd ad a point 4: treat your man with respect. Never ever mortify him especially in public.
I've seen this happen. The women simply miss the subtle look that men have when that happens. It's that look of calculating the ways of either laying down the law or ejecting her from his life without being impoverihed by the courts

xavier

]]> By: Didact https://didacticmind.com/2019/02/balancing-ledger.html#comment-1672 Wed, 20 Feb 2019 05:00:19 +0000 #comment-1672 In reply to Anonymous.

Yes. Men have hard limits for bullshit from women. It may take us years or even decades to reach those limits, but once they are breached – there is no going back.

Along with my "Guys are simple" talk, which outlines the three things they need to do in your post.

That is some of the best advice that a father can give to his daughters. Men really aren't complicated. We all operate along basically the same lines. Women run into serious problems when they try to break these lines and change the man that they are with, either through manipulation or outright domination.

We men are stubborn creatures and take time to change, especially as we get older. Any woman who thinks that she can change her man simply by going nuclear on him constantly , is going to be in for a very rude awakening at some point.

]]> By: Anonymous https://didacticmind.com/2019/02/balancing-ledger.html#comment-1671 Tue, 19 Feb 2019 16:33:52 +0000 #comment-1671 My wife once had a friend that had breast cancer. Seemed to me she spend most of what was left of her time on earth as a shrieking harridan. I remember her bitching about her husband in our kitchen, as I looked out at him, passed out in a lawn chair in our back yard with the kids (they had three daughters). Poor bastard was worn out.
"Why wasn't it him that got cancer?"

In the end, he jettisoned her.

"How can he do this? Leaving his wife with cancer?" asked my wife. That was the first time she heard my signature line about such things – "Simple. A man can only take so much" So much what?

"Food, drink, sex, work, nagging, abuse, you…. fill in the blank"

BTW the woman died alone and bitter.

I've told that same line to both my daughters. Along with my "Guys are simple" talk, which outlines the three things they need to do in your post.

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