|The thousand-cock stare is real- even on virgins|
There is an old joke- a very old joke– that goes something like this:
A man at a party spies an attractive young woman and makes his way over to her to chat her up. The conversation is enjoyably spirited, and eventually the gentleman in question asks the lady if she would like to adjourn to his chambers for the evening. The lady demurs, as this is a day and age in which female promiscuity is much frowned upon. [Ah, the good old days…]
The gentleman, mildly annoyed at being rebuffed, then poses a hypothetical question to his charming companion:
Madam, would you spend the night with me for $10,000?
[Note: this was back when $10K was a huge amount of money, instead of merely being 2/3 of the price of a First Class return ticket to Dubai.]
The young lady’s face lights up at the prospect of such easy money, and she eagerly replies:
Smirking, our cad then asks,
Very well, madam- would you spend the night with me for $10?
Quickly working herself up into a state of high dudgeon, yon fair lady responds,
Certainly not, sir! What kind of lady do you think I am?!?
To which our friend simply grins and replies in peremptory fashion:
My dear, we have already established what kind of lady you are – now we are merely haggling on the price.
This quote has been attributed to several famous men- Winston Churchill is usually the favourite for this rather devastating shiv directed straight to the heart of the female id. (With apologies to Roissy for blatantly ripping off his excellent purple prose style there.) Other attributions include George Bernard Shaw and Bertrand Russell.
No matter who uttered that brilliant put-down, though, it remains a stupendously effective insight into female psychology. And, unfortunately, beautiful young women everywhere continue to prove the fundamental and universal truth of that retort:
A mother has pleaded for her 17-year-old beauty queen daughter to come home amid claims she has flown from her home in Russia to Dubai to sell her virginity for £10,000.
Anna Feschenko, 17, a model who was runner-up in the Miss Moscow contest in June, travelled to the United Arab Emirates after claiming its was a prize from the pageant.
But her friends denied it was a prize and said her true intention was to join an escort service which would offer her as a virgin to Arab clients.
She hoped to earn money to pay for her university education in Moscow.
Her travelling companion, named as Ekaterina K, 19, fled when she realised Miss Feschenko’s alleged intention to work as an escort in Dubai.
She said: ‘I travelled there because Anna invited me and said that it was a prize paid for by the Miss Moscow contest.
‘In two days we had a scandal when I got to know the truth about why we were there.I told Anna that I was not going to stay and would go home.
‘Anna tried to push me, she asked me to go away and leave her alone there. But I don’t need this kind of job.’
Ekaterina’s parents – who flew to Dubai to bring their daughter home – informed Anna’s mother who called on Russian police to help, reported Life.ru news website.
Ekaterina added: ‘I believe she had a right to know. It is a privilege in the UAE to be a virgin.
‘I think Anna was just impressed with the amount of money she could get.’
She also claimed Miss Feschenko was no longer living in the hotel where they originally stayed but was now in a flat in Dubai with two other eastern European girls who were ready to work as escorts.
Knowing what I do (now) of women- and I don’t pretend that it’s all that much, by the way- stories like this shouldn’t have much of an effect on me. The nature of women is what it is- one would find it easier to make a leopard change his spots than it would be to turn a whore into a nun.
Even so, I find this story, in particular, deeply and profoundly saddening. All that any real man can feel in reading that story, and after seeing the pictures that accompany it, is a soul-killing sorrow for the young lady in question, and for those who love her as a daughter and a friend.
Consider: you have a young, stunningly beautiful woman with a bright future ahead of her, apparently planning to sell herself as an escort to some rich Middle Eastern oil baron, in return for money and material goods. She is just 17 years old, and yet she has decided that selling herself to men and performing what are likely to be pretty depraved sex acts is what she wants to do with the next few years of her life.
The impact that such a life has on a woman is quite astonishing to see. Here, courtesy of the Roosh V forum, is an example of what happened to one of the world’s favourite adult film (((actresses))) after just a few years of getting spit-roasted by men (and women) for money on film:
|1,000-cock stare, age about 21 or so|
|10,000-cock stare, age about 27-28|
The difference between those two photographs speaks for itself. And this, let us please note, is a woman who genuinely loved her work as a porn actress. Ms. Grey is now 28, and you can see for yourself how badly she has aged in the years that she was in the industry.
That is the future which Ms. Feschenko has chosen for herself. She is young and beautiful now, but in less than ten years, her beauty and youth and innocence will be gone. And there is not one damn thing that she will be able to do in order to get those immeasurably precious qualities back.
I’ve written about the impact that this sort of life has on women before. It is devastating, both in terms of the destruction that it wreaks on a woman’s looks, and on her future ability to accomplish what, for most women, is the apex of their lives: becoming a mother to good children. A woman who sells her body at its most youthful and beautiful and resilient to men who use it as not much more than a receptacle for bodily fluids well deserves the label of “Dubai Port-A-Potty”, because that is precisely what she ends up looking like, both on the outside and the inside.
That does not mean that any man should try to save young Ms. Freschenko from herself- absolutely not. No man should ever be fool enough to try to play Captain Save-A-Ho. She made her choices, and now she must live with their consequences. Unfortunately, so too must those around her who love her and want the best for her- including her mother, who is clearly devastated at what her daughter has chosen for herself.
The other major lesson to learn here is that no man should ever be under any illusions about the nature of women. Don’t ever fool yourself into thinking that “your” special girl wouldn’t do something similar for the right amount of money.
One of the hardest truths that every man has to face in his life is that everyone has a price. Everyone’s soul can be bought for a price- with one exception. This sort of cynicism about human nature is difficult to bear; it creates a certain bitterness in the soul that shows itself in the interactions that men who understand such things have with beautiful women.
Such men are not fooled by a woman’s youth or innocence, and focus entirely on what a woman does, never on what she says.
This is not a pleasant place to be- but then, the truth is not supposed to be comfortable or easy. It simply is what it is, and the sooner we accept that fact, the better off we will all be.
The final lesson to be learned here is one that, in a morally upright world, would be dinned into young girls from the time that they are old enough to read: every woman has her price, but that price is quite often her soul.
And no sensible woman should ever be willing to pay that price in exchange for mere material goods. I don’t care how many shoes, how many handbags, how many first-class tickets to a Gulf Emirate it buys such a woman; there is always someone younger, tighter, fresher, and more beautiful out there for some Middle Eastern oil sheik to bone.
In just a few years, such women will find themselves used up and tossed aside like toilet paper- which, if they were brutally honest with themselves, is exactly what they signed up to be.
I fail to see how a few years of material comfort and hedonistic enjoyment is worth spending the rest of one’s life mired in repentance and self-loathing. Maybe there is a woman out there who can square that particular circle, but I fail to see how it is possible.