I have been trying to live like an extrovert for years and it has worn me out. I am at the point i would rather live in my car then share a house again.

Indeed. I was very lucky in a lot of ways in that I found a job that gave me the means and the opportunity to live alone, but there's no question that for people like us, we absolutely need space. Without it, we cease to function. I strongly recommend that you do whatever it takes to live by yourself if at all possible. The peace of mind and the comfort that comes with it is worth the cost.

by the end of the day i have no energy for game.

I suffer from the same issue. Stay tuned, I'll be posting about this shortly, particularly in the New Year. I'm working on sorting out this aspect of my life and will be sharing details.