Comments on: The Three Most Dangerous Words You Will Ever Hear https://didacticmind.com/2013/06/the-three-most-dangerous-words-you-will.html Strategic Defence of the Mantle of Responsibility Sat, 29 Aug 2020 20:56:16 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.1.3 By: Spartan https://didacticmind.com/2013/06/the-three-most-dangerous-words-you-will.html#comment-4304 Thu, 08 May 2014 15:07:43 +0000 #comment-4304 It's funny, for me personally it took "just being myself" to finally have consistent success with women. It's a long winding story, but can be summed up reasonably well by one incident:

I had been set up on a blind date by a woman I had been casually sleeping with. She had a colleague at work that was single and looking. Her advice was to me was "just be yourself and it should go great". It didn't go as well as I was hoping and then next time I saw the woman who set me up she said "Wow you sure screwed that one up. She told me that you were very nice but not what she was looking for right now. What the hell?" I gave her a puzzled look and she replied "You aren't nice. You're polite. There's a huge difference. I told you to be yourself and it sounds like you weren't. Had you been yourself, you wouldn't have spent more than 30 minutes in the restaurant…just like our first date if you recall. After I leave, compare those two dates and you'll see what I mean."

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