Thanks for stopping by. Your post on meeting other introverts was quite interesting.

Yes, there's a reason why I just flatly gave up on the nightclub scene in college. I really hated it- could never see the point. I'm only now beginning to get comfortable with going out in groups- and then only when I have an extroverted buddy along to do all the talking.

Danny's blog is definitely worth the trip. I just wish he'd clean up the formatting slightly. But that's a minor quibble. He has some good stuff there.

You can find them at nightclubs if you can stand the (sub)humanity, lol. Every gaggle of girls has a narcissistic extrovert leader with the rest of the girls not quite so outgoing or good looking (the Queen Bee must NOT be overshadowed). Look for the one in the group always smiling but rarely talking, or if she is talking, she's talking to one person, not loudly to the entire group.

I highly recommend Dannyfrom504's approach of catching her eye & then sticking your tongue out. Frankly, just read his site, he is an INTJ that knows what the hell he's doing.

dannyfrom504.wordpress.com/

Sometimes if you approach, the group will literally throw the introvert at you. They feel sorry for her because she never goes home with guys like everyone else does. The females think this is a character flaw.

A good way to bounce her to another place is to play on her introversion & ask if you can go somewhere quieter & less crowded to talk like for coffee or something.

Same. The only time I ever actually enjoy being in a big crowd is at a concert, and even then, it's not the crowd that interests me.

Which is probably the way I'm going to go. Nightclub game is very unlikely to work for me.

Thank you sir. In my case, building inner game is something that I really have to do. I realised not too long ago that my life is missing something very important (i.e. game) and I'm running out of time to correct that flaw. That's part of the reason why I wrote that post.

Your points regarding the quiet brooding Alpha are spot-on. This is a natural state for me- detached, quiet, and thoughtful. The question is, how does one convert from passive outer game to strong inner game? It's a question that can only be answered by direct application of the ideas to the real world.

I like your point about expounding on Austrian economics. I've found that whenever I've gone full-throttle into subjects like economics or global warming, it can go one of two ways. Either you completely lose your audience- if you do it wrong- or you take them along for an emotional ride- if you do it right. The challenge is to get it right.

You are correct about night game, but there is one thin that helps. Make yourself standout. Get a look. I shave my head, have a small bit of muscle, have a beard and dress head to toe in black. Black v neck, jeans, etc. You'll have more women so as long as its not a complete sausage fest approach you. You want to be Bruce Wayne, Ryan Gosling from Drive, not fucken Casonova. Go for the quiet, brooding, alpha thing if you can. Muscle helps tremendously. I'd wager it's more important to introverted people than extroverts.

Also, I think the connect with the emotions is a big one. I managed to get a makeout by talking passionately about the Austrian School of Economics, a subject boring to 99.9 percent of people, but when you go on about "inflation robs people, the elites screwing people over", the fate of the world, it can work, hilariously enough.